Who Are You Choosing to Become?

I’ve had many points in my life where I’ve reinvented myself and done a big reflection on ‘What next?’. 

Sometimes they can be triggers in life that force you to shift your identity in some way - for example:

Being heartbroken by a relationship break up - and asking myself what’s the meaning of life which kickstarted my spiritual and self-development journey

Getting breast cancer and realising that if I didn’t have much time left I didn’t want to be with my partner at the time and taking the plunge to do the high-level coaching training that I was scared to pay for.

Becoming a mum. 

Menopause.

Losing my job.

And sometimes its an inner voice or compass that speaks in contrast to other peoples’ expectations and wants to steer you in the right direction:

Noticing that I didn’t want to go to university to study electronic engineering - and instead worked at a photographic studio then applying to uni to do Photography, Film and Video.

Realising how much I hated my job (mainly the politics) and got inspired to train firstly as a reflexologist and then a coach.

Seeing a drummer at a jam and deciding to take some lessons just for the hell of it

Buying tumble down old cortijo with 50 olives trees on the side of a mountain

These shifts and realisations don’t necessarily need to be catastrophic or monumental but a constant process of iteration towards creating the life you want, where you can be who you are truly meant to be.  

It can be as simple as starting with a question: 

Who do I want to become?

What do I want to stand for now?

What do I want to focus on?

What do I need to let go of?

Change isn’t about what you do next, it’s who you become next.

Working with a coach is a great way to push, pull and ease yourself through a shift. Yes - we can do this on our own but coaching provides you with the support, accountability and challenge to think beyond your own mind and get crystal clear on who you want to become and a plan to achieve it. 

Book an intro call today to explore how we might work together and if we’re the right fit for each other.